I first joined the internet sometime around…2006, I think. It was the last year of my secondary school, which is kinda the UK’s version of high school. Up until that point I’d never owned a PC or Laptop before, I’d never had any real interest in them. I was not a social person, the number of friends I had I could count on one hand. School had always been a living hell for me and when I got home I just shut myself away from the rest of the world and played video games nonstop.
Then, as I said, I got an old crappy second hand PC in 2006. It was slow, barely had any disk space but it did the job. Through that I was able to get an MSN account to talk to the few people I knew and very soon I ended up on Youtube and quickly became engrossed in watching fan videos, AMVs, anime clips, the usual stuff. Another site I very quickly ended up stumbling on was Fanfiction.net and my mind was just blown by how many people on there shared the same love of the games that I did and how creative some could be, telling all original stories from the games and delving into any character they could think of. Moreso you could make your own characters and have them interact with cannon characters.
By today’s standards it’s a cliché and cringey to think about but at the time it was an amazing eye opener for me and I met a few people on FF that were the first real friends I ever made online, including one who would become my long running girlfriend. Soon after I was shown to DeviantArt and made my account here in 2007. I went through the usual paces of being a teenage fanboy who didn’t know anything. I did all the dumb things people in fandoms do but I was happy doing them.
Early on in my time online I was met with a lot of people who trolled or just insulted me for the sake of it and at first it hurt, it felt like the drama and shitflinging of my school life was waiting for me on the internet too but I eventually learned, as everyone on the internet does, that this is just something you have to deal with while you’re on here. You either learn to handle it or you let it get to you. And just as I did with the typical hate comments, I learned and I grew. I ended up moving out and into my own place with my girlfriend whom I met over FF, which is something I highly doubt I’d have done had I not met her, at least not nearly as soon as I did.
I met a lot of passionate people with amazing talents and seen so many breathtaking displays of that talent, from movies, artwork, writing, cosplays, music, all stemming from a love of a game or movie, fandoms comprised of thousands of people all discussing every new episode of a show and dissecting hidden meanings and plotting out their own hopes for character development. I would never have been exposed to any of this had it not been for the internet as it was.
And seeing so many other people’s hard work, I found my own passions, writing, telling stories and I stuck at it and got better. I’m still far from perfect but I can see a world of difference from how I used to be. I’ve changed for the better.
Every year at Blizzcon there’s the opening ceremony where thousands of people are packed into the main stage area, they come together to listen to the creators of games they adore come and tell them what they have planned. For that one moment all those people, none of their differences matter, none of the issues or opinions they differ on matter. All that matters is they are all there to express and share the love they have for something. It’s corny as hell, I know but that’s one of my favourite things about Blizzcon, that feeling of unity, of not being alone.
The internet gives that same feeling. 11 years later and I still don’t have that many friends offline and the ones I do, I mostly talk to over Steam or Discord. Meanwhile some of my closest friends are people I’ve never met in person and some may say that’s sad or pathetic, I know some people feel that online friends aren’t “real” friends but those are the people who helped me get over my breakup with my girlfriend, watching Markiplier helped me laugh again after my great grandmother passed away. They made me feel like I wasn’t alone, even if all I was doing was sitting in an empty house typing on a keyboard.
I can never express how grateful I am and how much I love the people I’ve met online and how amazing I think they are for dealing with when I act like an asshole and still stick by me.
The internet is an incredible thing, it’s a massive open world where we can explore anything we want, talk to people on the other side of the planet and express ourselves in ways the real world simply does not allow. I am in awe of it and of how much it’s changed me over the years. How much I’ve opened up too, entirely because of this outlet. I’m far more sociable online than I am in real life and I can’t imagine what I’d be if I hadn’t gotten that old crappy PC 11 years ago.
But now the internet that I know and love is threatened. The FCC has voted to repeal net neutrality in the US and once that door is open it won’t be long before the same thing happens here in the UK. Now corporations can choose what you’re allowed to access, they can charge more and more for you to express yourself or to visit your favourite sites. They can shut down things they don’t like and prevent you from doing what you love.
The overwhelming majority of the American people made it clear they did not want this but Ajit Pai, the Chairman of the FCC, a bureaucrat that was not voted into his position, has chosen to blatantly ignore the will of the people, to spit in the face of democracy and push his own agenda despite everyone telling him to stop. Whatever side of the net neutrality debate you fall into, the fact is over 70% of US citizens said they did not even want this vote to happen and the FCC did it anyway. That is not how this is meant to work.
And now we’ve lost this fight. The vote is passed and it’s only a matter of time until companies like Verizon and Comcast begin chopping up the internet and charging more for what used to be free and telling us where we’re allowed to go or not. Once this door’s been opened I don’t really believe it can be closed but that doesn’t mean we have to just accept that this is how things are now. The internet has power, millions of people can still voice their opinions and fight this.
I don’t..really know what I planned this to be when I began writing. I don’t know what we can do if the people making these laws choose to ignore what the people want. I just…when I think about net neutrality being repealed and the internet as we know it changing, I’m just reminded of my 14 year old self sitting at that old PC installing Worlf of Warcraft for the very first time, of seeing Nazo Unleashed and SMBZ on Youtube for the first time, reading all those badly written but inspiring fanfictions as a whole world opened up for me. I’m reminded of how much has happened since then, how much I’ve changed, all that change that would never have happened had it not been for how the internet was.
Maybe all this makes me seem pathetic but it’s how my life has gone. I don’t want to see us lose something that means so much to me and I know means so much to everyone else too.